A handshake can tell you a lot about a person. It can also be the prelude to a variety of relationships. Why has the importance of giving a proper handshake been forgotten?
There are few things worse than a bad handshake. Whether it's bone crushing or limp wristed and loose, it's terrible either way. At the age of 4, my grandfather taught me to shake hands. A handshake was to be firm, straight forward, and you were to look the recipient in the eyes. That last part was important because it would illustrate that you were trustworthy. I have received many handshakes that do not live up to the standard that I was taught by.
As I have mentioned in earlier posts, I have started my own side business. It is because of this that I find myself at many networking events where handshakes are as freely given as kisses to a long lost lover. These handshakes should be starting future business relationships. Instead, I am left puzzled by what I've just received in my extended hand. I used to think that men were the main givers of bad handshakes, but it is equal opportunity. I have received bone shattering grips from other women as well as handshakes so impotent I thought I was holding a dead fish.
Handshakes should be a pleasure for both parties. If your handshake is lacking, it will cause others to wonder what else is. Extend your hand, firmly grip and shake with an authoritative fluidity. Last but not least, look them in the eye. You want them to be able to trust you, don't you?
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