Can't Touch This

     In social settings (i.e. cramped clubs & bars), you are bound to touch other people. It is when this touching is deliberate and disrespectful that a problem arises. As chivalry and social graces take a back seat, both men and women have become more tactile than necessary.

     Last November, Liza and I decided to have a much needed girl's night out. All was well until I was walking off the dance floor and a guy put his finger in the belt loop of my jeans and attempted to pull me closer. I was beyond livid.

    "Get your hands off of me! What's wrong with you?!" I yelled as I smacked his hand away.

     "Sorry," he said turning scarlet.
  
     "You should be!"

     As the night progressed, another guy thought he should talk into my shirt. He literally spoke into my top as though there were a row of microphones for a press conference in it.

     "How are you doing?" he asked into my shirt.

    "Get the hell out my damn face," I replied calmly.

     Although the rest of the night went well, I was still appalled that this behavior occurred. The sad thing is the behavior is equal opportunity. My friend, Cameron, was a bar that he normally doesn't go to playing pool with friends. He said that as he bent over the table, a woman walking past grabbed a hunk of his backside. He was shocked. When he stood up instantly, she glanced at him with a grin and was completely unashamed. Seriously?

     Touch is one of the five senses. As with any other natural ability, it must be used appropriately. Being admired is flattering as long as it's respectful. Feel free to look, but don't touch the merchandise.