Every Single Step

      We have all heard the following quote, "I know the perfect guy/girl for you!" As a single person, I can tell you I dread this sentence. The second you're single longer than people think you should be, they suddenly have someone they want to fix you up with. I like being in relationships, but I also like my own company. I go to dinner by myself, I look at art, and I've even been known to attend a symphony or two solo.

Patti Stanger-The Millionaire Matchmaker



For the most part my friends are supportive, but some of them don't get it. They think that attending things by yourself is a little awkward. I disagree. I'd rather be at a great dinner by myself than an awful date any day. I also believe that each relationship teaches you something and you need time to let these lessons soak in. I've never been a fan of rebounds. I prefer my relationships to be meaningful and have longevity.

     A few well meaning friends and relatives have tried to talk me into going on dates with guys that they know. I thank them, but politely decline. I've been on two blind dates in my whole life. The one was great but didn't lead anywhere. The seconds was disastrous. It was like I went on a date with Murphy's Law. Everything that could go wrong did. I've done pretty well picking my own dates, so I think I'll keep it that way.

     To all my single comrades out there, enjoy life with the same intensity you would in a relationship. Take in the beauty of the world uninterrupted. The next time you're at a nice restaurant and the server asks, "Will anyone be joining you?" Stand tall, square your shoulders, and reply, "No it'll just be myself tonight."