Let's Hear It for the Boys

     Every girl needs a guy friend to bounce ideas off of and gain insight about life and the opposite sex. I am very lucky to say that I have several male friends that I go to for counsel and for friendship. For this entry, I would like to take a break from social graces and thank these gentlemen.

    Parker has been my friend for almost 9 years. We met when he moved from New Orleans to Michigan because of Katrina. We've both dealt with bad break ups and undergrad dilemmas. Out of our group of friends, he and I are the oldest. We've weathered life's storms and come out better because of it.

Parker and I. Great minds dress alike

     Adair and I met when he was a freshman in college. He has knack for introducing me to songs that end up stuck in my head. He is also the best wedding date a girl can have. Also, I never had more fun smoking hookah or on a boat on a 100 degree day with anyone else.


Adair and I at my sorority sister's wedding

     A few years after I met Parker, I met my friend, Kiernan. Who is also called Big Red due to his red hair. He's funny, sensitive, and draws a heck of a comic. He's come to all my birthday celebrations since I started having them at 22.

Adair, Kiernan and I on Valentine's Day 2014

 

     Miguel is not only my friend but a brother. His family and I are close; in fact his older sister is my little sister in my sorority. We argue like siblings, but when bad times hit we've got each other. Despite a 5 year age difference we have many of the same things in common.

     From the time I met Anderson two things were obvious, he was hilarious and had a penchant for mischief. He and I are both trouble makers and have decided we shouldn't sit next to each other at social events. He is newly engaged and will be moving down south for a job this summer. Congrats again, Anderson.

     Aziz and I met at a random get together about two years ago. I was being my usual self and ended up drawing laughs. Like many people in our social circle he's heard stories about me, but hadn't met me yet. He is at once hilarious and logical. Two things that are hard to do simultaneously. His hash tags are legendary.

     Tucker is married and a proud father of a son. When we were in college he also was known to plan an amazing party and co-create card games. I know few people who can make seersucker at a mixer look as cool as him.

     I don't remember how I met my friend Amin, but I'm glad I did. If Clark Kent were into computer systems instead of being a superhero, he'd be it. All of my friends have a great sense of humor and Amin is no exception. His quips are subtle but always funny.

     Last but certainly not least, is my friend, Cameron. He's always good for discussion over coffee at diners and much needed doses of sarcasm. He's also always up for a sporadic get together with friends. One summer afternoon, myself, Adair, and one of the other friends hung out in his front yard. It was just us, a few drinks, and a computer with an amazing iTunes playlist.

     To my guy friends I missed, please accept my apology. This post would be unbearable to readers if it were any longer. Gentlemen, thanks for the laughs, long talks, impromptu parties, wisecracks, bad influences, and the privilege of calling you my friend. Who needs a boyfriend when you have so many boy friends?